(This discounted copy contains soft, white printer lines on some photos/illustrations. Readability is unaffected) THE LIE OF EVERY MAN'S BATTLE: HOW TO UNDO THE SPIRUTUAL DAMAGE WREAKED UPON THE SEXES BY THE CHRISTIAN BESTSELLER. Martin Zender and co-author Heidi Colpo encourage sexual freedom by breaking the bonds of sexual shame brought upon both children and adults by orthodox religion.